Saturday, June 20, 2009

Experiance



As we walk through this life we so often pass up the chance to truly experience moments with friends or families. We bait ourselves with excuses like I've got errands to run or things to do, or I don't feel like it and you stay at home and do what ever. It makes no sense to me. I deal with this a lot at home because my roommate constantly avoids going out and experiencing anything. Life is spoced to be one great experience and if we never engage in anything then aren't we wasting life. I'm not saying you should try and do everything anyone asks you to do but definitely with in reason. For instance I was spoced to hang out with my friend Nate last night but my other friends called me last sec to come hang out with them So I told Nate I needed to see them first by the time I got to Nate everyone else was just showing up. Worked out perfectly. Sometimes this catches me off guard I got to see my X the other night but it was right after work and I was super sweaty and smelly. Don't get me wrong I really enjoyed seeing her but I was definitely a little pungent for social activities and had wished I had taken a shower or brought a change of clothes right :d. In the end I just wanted to remind people to take the time to experience each other and not to always put things off till some other time. It will be worth it i promise. Don't always give yourself an excuse to leave early or even to not come.

pepsi

Thursday, June 11, 2009

For the Moment

So summer is in full swing and by the gods we are lucky it's still raining I really do hate the heat. We have used it to our advantage lately I have been swimming 3 times which is 2 more time than last year lol. Starting with and after the bars a trip to a friends parent's house to swim in their out doors pool which was WAY cold. Could see your breath out that evening so yeah didn't stay in that one too long. The very next day we took off for what we call Mock Summer where we go out to this secret place at the lake and start a camp fire and just hang out and swim in the surprisingly warm lake water. This year got a a little crazy lol lots of skinny dipping. Over all huge success. Went on to a house party a few weeks after that that most of the people I work with were at and went swimming in their apartment pool that night I was quite intoxicated that night and so kinda got my clothes really wet. What can ya do.

But this all circles the point I was going to make which is never pass up experience. If you have the chance to interact with people and experience new things even if they are weird and you are unsure about it. Get out their and try it. I live with a guy who never leaves the house swear to god he works gets off work comes home sleeps then goes back to work. That is not a life! He says "He's just not a people person". Man I did something like that one year just stayed in all the time never interacted with people. It was one of the most depressing years of my life. I have been doing my best to get my roommate out there and experience things. You just HAVE to remember that if at all possible never pass up any experience no matter how weird it might seems. Unless it could land you in the emergency room or a drug rehabilitation center. No one wants that. I mean even if it's bad you'll have a great memory of it. Looking back even some bad memories turned out to be life changing events. Everything we do and every choice we make steers us in a new direction and ultimately crafts out life road. To you want to be a straight road from birth to death no detours. Man I don't